You have three kinds of people:
1. the rational
2. the emo(tional) 
3. the in-between
I used to be extremely emotional. Before January, I was emotional, I was an overthinker and a overanalyzer. The past three months, till april, it is pretty safe to say that I was an emotional wreck haha! over thinking was an understatement. I spun out of control everytime something happened that wasn’t in my planning. Every single teenyweeny thing that people around me said and did was overanalyzed and bla bla bla…it safe to say that for a period of three months I had the emotional level of a 8 months pregnant woman mixed with a woman in her period. Yes readers, it was baaaaaad! Don’t u think it is pretty much a miracle that i am still happy.
Anywhooooooo, I think my head was desperate to never go back to its old ways, so I made a 180 degree turn and I changed to a…you are sooooo never going to guess what I am going to say ….I changed to a rational person. So rational, it still surprises me when my friends ask me to analyze situations (like all girls do) and that I just say: girl, there is nothing to do with the situation. The only thing we can do is to be happy for that moment and we will see what the future brings. We can not invent possible situations that MIGHT happen. So some of my friends, are pretty dazed about this new change.
Anyway, right now, I am relaxed, I don’t overthink anything, unless it is at night When I want to sleep and I lay in my bed, than the thoughts come to my mind and I go back to my old ways. Something different though is that I rationalize my thoughts. I am aware from my state of mind, by that I mean that it is night (so u are always more emotional at nighttime) and I am tired (idem). So then, I go to sleep and I wake up rational again! Yay! XD
Next to the fact that I turned pretty rational, is that I communicate. I always communicate. I am (to the outside world) very extrovert (to some extent, but the majority of the people I know think that they know EVERYTHING about me because I talk a lot). Anywho, I love to talk. I also appreciate when people talk with me and tell me what is on their minds. A lot of my friends do that and I like that because then I can help them figure out what is bothering them. It annoys me, in some way, when people don’t talk to me. When something happened and I have something to do with it, and the don’t say anything. Relationship, all kinds, are based on communication, why do some people say they communicate and they don’t. I know it is hard to say things sometimes, I am a perfect example of it. It is very hard for me, to say things that I don’t appreciate to people I care about or that have an important role in a certain way. But i learned, now I dare to say things I don’t appreciate to my friends. It bothers me that some people take impulsive decisions (to me some decisions are impulsive because I don’t get the back info) or say things to me about something concerning me and expect me to understand and never talk about it. Then, I get pretty frustrated
Alright. that is that. Dear readers, men or women, boys or girls, be rational, or even try to be, it makes your life a lot easier and more fun, but don’t take your loved ones for granted, accept the fact that some of them are less rational than you, so communicate with him or her or them.
Remember that your life is very short, there is no time to be sad for to long or do things that you don’t like and that the result you don’t like either.
Enjoy!
