What’s up with men? In my surrounding, I here several stories about guys that first charmed girls and after a few hours, days or weeks they dump them like old shoes! What is wrong with you guys?! Why do you do that? First of all, you NEVER dump old shoes! One day they will become vintage or retro and u will feel sorry you threw them away. Secondly, why does a guy charm a girl, make her like or even love him to dump her the next day.
Exhibit A.
When you were just dumped a few weeks before and you are now on holiday in a beautiful city with your friends and you meet this guy that you like and you have a great conversation, why does he ask if you have a relationship and he says he doesn’t either when it is a lie?! Why does he flirt with you, kisses you, calls you the prettiest, smartest girl in town? That girl falls for him, liking the idea of a rebound foreign boyfriend and when she arrives home and sends him a text message, HIS GIRLFRIEND calls her ten thousand times and makes the girl feel bad by insulting her, without even thinking about the fact that HER BOYFRIEND cheated on her! Why guys? Why lie?
Exhibit B.
A girl who had a crush on some guy gets attention of another guy, who she thinks is friendly and cute. He sends her messages, flirts with her and makes her like him a lot. When she does the biggest mistake of all by going to him while she’s drunk, he is nice to her and even the next morning he makes her feel good and takes her regrets away. Until he doesn’t call her or send a message. He is mean to her and ignores her. Why guys? Why do that?
Exhibit C.
Why lead a girl on for so many months or even years before actually saying to her that he likes/dislikes her? Is the attention so pleasant that the guy is prepared to break the girl for it? Why don’t be clear with her? Why did he say so many lovely words to her, resulting that she completely surrender herself to him.. just to be dumped the next day/week?! Why?
Exhibit D.
Why does a guy give the girl the idea that he likes her, even though she keeps standing by her standards and doesn’t surrender within a few weeks? Why does he make her feel respected and liked just to dump her the next week? Just to never answer her calls anymore?
What’s with the desire of men, to charm a girl, in whatever way, just to dump her the next day or week? What kind of satisfaction does a guy get by being so nice to a girl and ignore her calls after a few days? Even though she doesn’t call that much (I am not speaking of needy girls that call everyday once at least)? I am not speaking of relationships only, but also the first phase, the ‘courtship’ fase. Why does a guy make the girl feel al special and liked just to let her go and ignore after a while? Is it cowardness? Is it insecurities? Is it lack of respect? Is it with all men different? Are ALL men like that? I don’t know. I do know that there ARE some men staying faithful and honest to the woman/girl but can somebody tell us where they are? Are they all already married of in a relationship?
Are there any guys/men in this world that never broke a girl’s heart or won’t? That are true and honest from day 1? That are clear and don’t lead the girl on?
If you find one, treasure and keep him, because there aren’t many of them!
